I am a Healing Traumatized Women.  I don't let that define me. I am a believer of God,  wife, mother, grandmother, daughter, and a sister. I have lived a life of trauma, I have lived a life of Blessings,  both of these are both different but similar in my life. I love to laugh and have fun, watch movies, series shows, and I love my job. My family is my number one Love of my life. I value my family and my true friendships I know that God and blessed me with. As I get into my story, you will grow to understand the reason for my voice. I want  you to know my life hasn't always been Rainbows and Butterflies. It has been filled with heartache, pain, abuse, and trauma, not to mention all the other emotions I have been exposed to.  However, my most trauma was what I believe was caused from the loss of family members and what I call "church hurt". I wanted to create a blog so you could listen to my story and how it has affected me, my children, and my husband.  I know I am not alone and hope that my Blog will help you to find hope again. My  journey is to help heal and empower you and to let you know that let you are not alone and you do have a voice. You are validated and you can heal one day at a time. I hope to help anyone reading my blog. There will be trigger warnings, There will also, I hope give hope. 

There will be stories about my Trauma from being a young child to an adult. My stories will have Trigger Warnings but also how I have and overcoming and working on healing from that trauma. However,  I want everyone to know  that we should love who we see in the mirror. It's an everyday battle of choosing yourself over Trauma and can be a long hard journey , but when this happens, we learn to have a voice and believe in ourselves. We can also learn how to be happy and how to realize that you can be all you want to be!  You do have hope, you do have a future, you can have happiness.